Yoni Lingam Massage in Kent

If any changes to the law are proposed that might affect my business I intend to write about them here.

We may all think of tantric lingm massage, escort services and prostitution as very different things.  I don’t think my clients think of me as a prostitute and many specifically say they do not want to see an escort of have sex - so clearly that is not how they see my selvice.

In a legal sense, however, all that I have read suggests that laws relating to prostitution will relate to any activity intended for sexual arousal - so tantric massage could be effected by changes in the law.

Currently there are NO changes looming.

The All-Party Parliamentary Group on Prostitution and the Global Sex Trade - The clue is in the title. They seem to be interested in people travelling the world because of the sex trade (yes a bad thing - perhaps) but mixing it up with adults like myself who have stayed in my own country and have positively chosen to work independently providing a sexual service.

They published a report in March 2014 called Shifting the Burden- download it from their website.

They are concerned about women who become prostitutes through force and a terrible history of drugs, violence, abuse, kidnapping and global trafficking.  These are certainly terrible things that need to be tackled.  The APPG suggest men who pay for sex with these women should be criminals, and that is the case already in the UK in many situations.

The APPG did not take on board that these women are a tiny minority of the women in the UK employed in providing sexual services.  The vast majority of women who provide sexual in the UK are not “walking the streets” or hooked on drugs.  They are not doing the work against their will and have positively chosen to do that sort of work.  The APPG did not seek out evidence from British women who are self employed, have happily chosen to do sex work and would like to continue to do so (and pay taxes, and work in safe places, and enjoy their work, and have lovely clients).  The APPG sought evidence via organisations that help the most vulnerable women would want to leave a career of prostitution (such as homeless drug users).

The APPG propose Paying for Sex should be a criminal activity, that would include any activity that is intended to sexually arouse, yes, my massages. 

The implication being I could offer a lingam massage but clients could not pay for them!  Obviously that would take us in to that silly place where I would charge to give you a massage but the sexual pleasure part of it we would have to describe as an additional free activity between consenting adults. Not satisfactory for either of us - I like to tell you what you will get for your money.

Fortunately the APPG on Prostitution seem to be a minority who are heavily influenced by certain religious values and are not in line with popular public opinion.  As trafficking and modern slavery in the UK has become an issue, raised in the Queen’s speech in June 2014 and to be tackled before the 2015 election we must watch out that turning my clients into criminals does not get tacked on to this.  My clients are not involved in vile activities that exploit and oppress women.

Most people in the UK believe consenting adults should be able to engage in sexual activity and exchange money of gifts in any way they choose, we just need to remind our MPs of this.

Lingam Massage and Orgasm

You should not feel under any pressure to reach an orgasm or to prevent one. The session will not end just because this happens. Most clients will have one or more orgasms in the session.

An Equal Status Naturist Massage

For a Lingam massage the client will be naked. The therapist does not have to be nude but some clients prefer a naked therapist, this is called an Equal Status Naturist Massage.

I am usually happy to be naked for the session if you prefer an Equal Status naturist experience. I may begin the massage in my uniform whilst you are on your stomach but remove my clothes before you turn over.