Sexy massage, towels, and naturism

Recently, a man lay down on my massage table and then proceeded to tell me he'd rather I leave the towel off. I was so surprised by this that I didn't know what to say or do. For me it took away from the session as I found a lot of my brain was thinking about this rather than thinking about him... don't worry, he had a great time.

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perhaps the client was a naturist, but he didn't say this. 

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If a client wants to ask whether I can change the way I do things, they really should be asking those questions before they are naked and lying on the couch. 

Once naked.. now, we have begun.

We are moving into the relaxation phase.

It's not the time to debate.

You and he might think it's no big deal, and in some ways, that's true. 

But...

Here is how I see it.

No matter how many massages YOU or HE has had in the past, I will have delivered more massages. I have done this for years, several clients a week.

I am extremely experienced, and I have developed a process for a reason.

*** If you usually sleep under some cover then you should be covered for the massage... It is about comfort. And science. As the oil drys it will make you feel cooler. ***

The TOWELS

Of course, they cover modesty for those who are shy.

But they serve many more functions to add to the overall sensual and erotic experience.

What the client didn't realise is by asking me not to include towels so they could lie naked and be completely exposed throughout the whole session, they were asking to miss out on many of the sensual experiences that I usually include within the session.

It shows to me that they haven't understood what I offer.

They think:

* they have come for a massage 

* and a hand job.

I think I offer a holistic, erotic, sensual experience, which is quite different, and that is why I charge what I do and ask you to allow 2 hours. 

The towels only play a small part, but they are significant nonetheless. They allow a contrast between textures, temperatures, and being draped and undressed. Being swaddled and cherished. They allow me to do things that I couldn't do without them.

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It was hard to say all that when put on the spot in a way that blindsided me. 

Perhaps I should have been prepared, but in all my life, I only recall one other person saying something similar. 

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My message is... if you like the sound of my website, then put yourself in my hands.

It is a matter of trusting me to look after you for 2 hours.

If you want something different then you should go somewhere different.

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If you want to know more before making a booking, my website is two pages:

https://uklingammassage.co.uk/.

I have an automated booking system.

I sometimes do sessions at times that aren't shown as available, so drop me an email and ask.