Do I need to suggest there's no better time to come visit me for a bit of self-care pampering than when it's cold outside, and the media and shops are full of romance?
~~ you can't miss lurid red and pink adorning every shop ~~
Have you stumbled into an alternative universe, a surreal Barbie-land?
You enjoy the whirlwind of romantic expectations if you enjoy that sort of thing --- there's nothing wrong with it.
But MOST OF US? We feel like we're past it. Those messages aren't aimed at us. Life isn't fluffy, sugary, pink candyfloss. It doesn't matter if we don't drink bubbles on the 14th.
Perhaps we're single - and like it that way - and don't relate to this holiday.
Here's the Good News, according to Deb:
* You are never alone because you always have the most incredible companion by your side — you.
* Think about the one person with you through the good times and the bad, the one who's always there for you: YOU!
A nice dinner. Your great film. An exciting book. Rejuvenate your spirit!
Back to normal. Back to work. Back to the future.
It is always best and easiest for both of us if you book in advance and use my automated online booking system, which will:
* show you when I am available
* reserve your time slot
* send you an automated reminder text and email.
NEED to CANCEL?
Please cancel online or send me a text or email to let me know.
I often find myself reminding my clients that I'm not a doctor and I can't work miracles. I'm sure they know these things already, but I want them to get proper medical advice when needed.
That said, I've met so many people through my work and discovered many interesting things about our bodies.
Only recently, I saw a cheerful and smiling man, but his eyes hadn't gotten the memo. He blurted out all his fears related to his prostate cancer and forthcoming op.
After giving him the standard disclaimer (and a big hug, of course), I was then able to reassure him that there was plenty of hope for a great future as he progresses to the next chapter in his life.
He has been prepared for the worst possible outcome -- even so, that doesn't mean his sex life has to be over.
Women don't have prostates, and we enjoy sex, so clearly, having one isn't essential (I am not a doctor, LOL).
Our biggest sexual organ is our mind. It's our mind that gets turned on or turned off, and our bodies merely react.
But scratch that.
Our biggest sexual organ is our SKIN.
Touch is amazing, and we crave it - even in a non-sexual way.
But when it comes to erotic touch, my clients discover erogenous places they never knew existed.
I talk to many clients about their relationship and sex-related concerns ~ premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction being common.
I won't tell anyone else about our conversations, and I do have time to discuss all sorts of worries.
Perhaps you want your session to be earlier?
This might be possible, so send a message and ask.
Tell me everything in one message, don't assume I will scroll back and discover a messaging history with you. Sometimes I have many people sending me messages at the same time. It gets confusing.
Most importantly - tell me what date and time you want (and if you are already booked), don't leave me guessing!
If you want to contact me at short notice for a swift reply or shortly before a booking, then text messages are best because they will be seen first. Sometimes my WhatsApp doesn't work.
NEVER ever expect an instant reply, and here is why:
1) I don't live at my place of work - so there is a good chance I'm driving to work or getting ready for work.
2) My phone is constantly on silent, and I do not spend all my time staring at it.
Work-life balance and all that.
And what is the above image about?
* I drive to work in time for your appointment.
* I don't text & drive.
* Be patient and wait for a reply.
* If I have to cancel or if I'm going to be very late, I will contact you and let you know. Otherwise, all is well.
My automated online booking system for my sensual massage is the best thing since sliced bread. At least, it is from my point of view, but some clients are puzzled by it.
**I thought everyone was used to using automated online booking systems,
and for the most part, it does run smoothly.**
Let me explain: it is an automated system - just like when you book tickets to the theatre.
* Clients can see my availability, compare our schedules, and make a firm reservation. They don’t have to wait for me to get back to them.
* Clients can book their time slot while it is on their mind, which blanks it out, making that time unavailable for others. It is also easy to cancel without me being involved in that admin process. It will send automatic reminders (I think one the day before and one an hour before and they go to email and text).
* It means I don’t have to be available to take calls from clients, and we don’t need to go back and forth with multiple messages.
* I do manually update it regularly to change my hours as I need to.
One thing I do daily is check the times around appointments. I want to give clients plenty of choice about times, but I don't want to accidentally find three clients have booked up a whole day with back-to-back sessions, so I make sure to blank out time around my sessions and allow me enough time for other things.
My sessions take too much energy for me to fill all my hours with this.
* The process isn’t managed by a booking agency.
* No human is involved in the booking process apart from the client.
* The confirmations and reminders are automated.
* They’re sent by a machine, not by me personally.
* No one sees your booking information apart from me. I usually only look at your specific details on the day or the day before your appointment.
You can attach a message to your booking, but I will not see it until possibly minutes before we meet (or I might not see it at all).
* When you book online - the booking process is not the place to ask questions about the session.
* If you need to make enquires beforehand, use the usual messaging systems: EMAIL or text message. WhatsApp works most of the time but sometimes doesn't
Booking An Erotic Massage Online ~ Issues arising:
A few clients using the system didn’t realise it was fully automated.
They thought someone (me or an agent) manually looked at the booking request and manually approved or refused it. And at that point, we manually send out a confirmation. This is not how it works. If you book, then you are booked. Confirmations go out automatically, and I don't know how to stop them.
I don’t have to accept every booking; of course, I can go in and manually cancel or alter your booking. It would be a rare event (e.g., sudden illness) that would require me to do this, and I would also contact you by text message or email to let you know.
Now you know about it, please go ahead and use it.
Can you feel it? The warmth of the sun on your skin, the gentle breeze caressing your face, and the vibrant energy in the air. Ah, summer! It has arrived, The sun is shining, the days are longer, and it's a season that brings out the best in us. It's a season of leisure, relaxation, and indulgence, where the mind often drifts to the pleasures of the flesh and the desire for some much-needed pampering.
And speaking of which, I'm here to offer you a slice of paradise right in the midst of this sunny season!
I'll be open for business throughout the summer, ready to help my wonderful clients experience the ultimate in escapist pampering. If you're seeking a sensual massage, I've got you covered.
You might be wondering, "But what about the scorching hot weather? Won't it be unbearable?" Fear not, for my sanctuary is designed to provide respite from the sweltering heat. The temperature inside my building remains pleasantly within the lower half of the 20s on the C scale.
You can indulge without breaking too much of a sweat. After all, summer is about embracing the heat, not being overwhelmed by it!
Let the coolness of my space envelop you, allowing you to fully unwind and indulge in some well-deserved "me time."
As for me, well, I don't have any big holidays planned this summer.
So, if the idea of basking in the summer sun and treating yourself to some much-needed pampering sounds like a dream come true, don't hesitate to book a visit with me. Come and escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life, even if just for a little while. Let me transport you to a place of utter serenity, where worries melt away and pure bliss takes over.
Remember, life is meant to be enjoyed.
So, why not seize the opportunity this summer to take care of yourself, recharge your batteries, and embrace the pleasures that await?
Let's discuss my booking schedule when it comes to weekends, bank holidays, school holidays, etc.
In short: If the session you want doesn't appear in my booking system, then it is always worth sending a quick email or text message or WhatsApp to enquire, and please mention that you have checked my website.
In general, I always point people to my online booking system.
It's dead simple and works really well... 90% of the time.
However, I can't show you when the ODD afternoon is available.
Like this weekend, for example: it's a long bank holiday weekend for the coronation.
Normally I am available on Saturday mornings, but this Saturday I won't be available until about 11.30 ish.
An appointment at 12 would be perfect this Saturday but usually wouldn't work for me at all, and there isn't a way I can tell you this one-off fact.
Then on Sunday and Monday - both days - there's no school run, so I can be much more flexible with my time slots.
I have great flexiblity
to book different time slots through
I will never be doing late afternoons and evenings. I get up early, so I'm too tired to start work about 12 hours or more after getting out of bed.
Will you be tied up in coronation activities?
As humans, we need touch like we need air to breathe. And there are tonnes of emotional and physical benefits that come from touch!
So I've been intending to publish a blog about this for ages, and now here it is. Well, this is just part 1, as I realise there is so much to say about the benefits of touch.
Research has shown that touch is essential to human communication, bonding, and health. It plays a role in showing compassion and connecting with others.
In fact, one study led by Matt Hertenstein found that we can communicate compassion through touch. Can you believe it? Participants in the study could correctly guess emotions like compassion, gratitude, anger, and love just by receiving a one-second touch to their forearm from a stranger. How amazing is that?
Read more here if you want:
But it’s not just about communication. Having strong social connections has been linked to an increase in longevity, a stronger immune system, faster recovery from disease, and even a longer life! When we feel connected to others, we’re less likely to feel anxious or depressed.
People with strong social connections have higher self-esteem, empathy for others, and are more trusting and cooperative. And who doesn’t want to be around someone like that?
Problem is we live in a society that often keeps us apart. Increasingly many of us have less closeness and connection and physical touch in our daily lives.
Get Hands on with Healing Powers of Touch
So, the next time you give someone a pat on the back or a friendly arm caress, remember that these small gestures can have a big impact on our emotional and physical wellbeing. It’s all about the power of touch and the language of compassion.
There is so much going on when we interact in a massage session that’s all about all-over touch and merely that prolonged skin-to-skin content is one reason why you walk out on a high.
You will find me in Alsager. It is just on the edge of the county where Staffordshire meets Cheshire. Stoke-on-Trent is the nearest city, and it is about a 20-minute drive.
It is difficult for me to advertise as I never know whether to put my services as located in the North West or in the West Midlands. I'm accessible to both and on the border of both regions, but I'm not in Manchester, and I'm not in Birmingham.
What I can tell you is I'm very handy for the M6, let's not talk about the frequent traffic problems there. I avoid it as much as possible.
Canals are pretty than roads, and we have plenty of them in this part of the country.
The weather has certainly changed in the last couple of weeks. Goodbye, global warming! Hello, thick wool socks.
Rest assured, the massage studio is keeping nice and toasty, especially with the heat mat on the massage couch. So, you don't need to worry about getting a chill while you are naked and exposed.
Now, many clients contact me just minutes before the session to ask about the local car park. It is free to park.
A small area of it is Short Stay (for 2 hours), but most of it is Long Stay. You want to be in the LONG Stay area.
Because you don't want to feel in a rush to leave.
And when you do leave, you might want to go for a drink or a light lunch. I must mention that we are fortunate to have many lovely cafes just a stone's throw from my location.